{"id":299165,"date":"2019-05-10T06:10:20","date_gmt":"2019-05-09T20:10:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saipantribune.com\/?p=299165"},"modified":"2019-05-10T06:10:20","modified_gmt":"2019-05-09T20:10:20","slug":"moms-in-uniform","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saipantribune.com\/index.php\/moms-in-uniform\/","title":{"rendered":"Moms in uniform"},"content":{"rendered":"
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One of U.S. Army Reserve Specialist Ashley Castro\u2019 s qualifications is being a driver for military vehicles. (Bea Cabrera)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Whenever she puts on her uniform as a U.S. Army reservist, Sgt. Kelly Sablan\u2019s 5-year-old-daughter shouts out, \u201cSoldier! Soldier!\u201d and she knows that mommy is going off to work.<\/p>\n

Sablan hopes that that will make her a role model to not just her daughter but also other girls that they can aspire to do their own thing or get into a field of work that is dominated by men.<\/p>\n

For Ashley Castro, a U.S. Army Reserve specialist, putting on her uniform is almost a life-changing affirmation. \u201cIt is like I am not just Ashley Castro, that I am a part of something bigger and meaningful.\u201d<\/p>\n

Serving one\u2019s country and being a mother at the same time may appear daunting but these women are proving that, with focus, sacrifices, and hard decisions, it can be done. And these military moms in the U.S. Army Reserve stationed in the CNMI also manage to face both responsibilities with great honor and respect.<\/p>\n

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U.S. Army Reserve Sgt. Kelly Sablan works as a 7th grade teacher at Hopwood Middle School. (Bea Cabrera)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Sablan, a mother of two and a 7th grade teacher at Hopwood Middle School, counts on the help she gets from her support system: her family.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe military offers work-family balance programs but, personally, I balance my military career and personal life through advance planning and having a really good support system. With advance planning, when I know I will be leaving for training to go off island, I would tell my parents to take care of my children. They are big supporters of my military career,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

Her support system extends up to her workplace, making sure that her students are also taken cared of.<\/p>\n

And because her children are still very young, she does not go into full details whenever she has to leave for off-island training. \u201cI just say I got go to work and I will be back.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sablan, who is 27 years old, joined the military fresh out of high school. \u201cI have been in the service for 10 years now.<\/p>\n

Like many who go into military service, Sablan said she pursued this career for the twin purpose of serving her country and to further her education.<\/p>\n

That comes with a lot of sacrifices, like missing milestones and family events.<\/p>\n

Sablan\u2019s patriotism helps her get through it. \u201cI knew coming into the service that there will be sacrifices because we constantly have to bear \u2018readiness\u2019 in mind and that\u2019s is really important being a soldier,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

As a soldier, what motivates her is the future she is creating for her children. \u201cI want my children to live a long and happy life and pursue the goals they want to when they figure it out. \u2026That is why peace and security are important to me as a soldier.\u201d<\/p>\n

Like other mothers, military moms face all the same day-to-day challenges. Sablan acknowledges that that\u2019s just how it goes. The important thing is powering through.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt does get hard, no matter what, because a lot of thing just come from the left field, unplanned. Just keep going, as balancing is hard but it\u2019s worth it in the end, especially if you have your kids and you see them grow up and pursue their own goals and dreams,\u201d Sablan said.<\/p>\n

As a woman, she finds joy representing women in the military but she pointed out that there is no dichotomy in being a soldier. \u201cWhen you are a soldier, there is no male or female. You are a soldier.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Aside from serving the military, U.S. Army Reserve Specialist Ashley Castro is scheduled to finished her studies at Northern Marianas College in 2020. (Bea Cabrera)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Castro, who left Saipan 10 years to get basic training and advance individual training, chose to go into the U.S. Army Reserve \u201cbecause I wasn\u2019t ready to leave home yet and I also wanted to pursue my education.\u201d<\/p>\n

She is scheduled to graduate from the Northern Marianas College with a bachelor\u2019s degree in 2020 but what got her started on the military track was in high school, when she was a JROTC cadet from freshman year all the way to senior year at Marianas High School.<\/p>\n

That means Castro is not merely balancing a career and motherhood but is also juggling a third pursuit\u2014going after a college degree.<\/p>\n

\u201cOne of the benefits of being in the Reserve is that we also have education benefits and this helps me balance my life of being in the service, having two children, and being in school.\u201d<\/p>\n

Castro admits that it can be a struggle at times but the rewards make up for it. \u201cI have my parents and extended family who all help me with my children and my unit company in the military. \u2026It\u2019s just like any other workplace. When you have something going on, we notify in advance our leadership and, depending on the situation, they can approve the notice,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

She believes she is up to the challenge of having a career in military service. \u201cI feel like I will be in here for so many years but I am ready to take the next step to pursue my military career. \u2026It is exciting and I don\u2019t know want to expect until I am finally in that position, but I\u2019m sure I can handle it,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n

And being a soldier helps her ensure that her children will also have the \u201cfreedom and the choices that we have, to pursue our happiness and our overall wellbeing,\u201d she said. \u201c\u2026I want my children to have that opportunity now and tomorrow and I want them to make the choices without any persecution or restrictions.\u201d<\/p>\n

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U.S. Army Reserve Sgt. Kelly Sablan with a colleague donating school supplies. (Contributed photo)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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