{"id":425777,"date":"2024-11-27T08:06:47","date_gmt":"2024-11-27T08:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saipantribune.com\/?p=425777"},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T14:00:00","slug":"Rachael-Ray-Opens-Up-About-Marriage-Drama-Getting-Really-Angry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saipantribune.com\/index.php\/Rachael-Ray-Opens-Up-About-Marriage-Drama-Getting-Really-Angry\/","title":{"rendered":"Rachael Ray Opens Up About Marriage Drama &#038; Getting \u2018Really Angry\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/people\/rachael-ray\/\">Rachael Ray<\/a> has been getting candid about her explosive marriage after previously admitting to needing time apart from her husband <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/1159038\/rachael-ray-husband-john-cusimano-relationship-history\/\">John Cusimano<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/1159513\/rachael-ray-health-update-sad-things-video\/\">Last month<\/a>, the celebrity cook told her <a href=\"https:\/\/rachaelray.com\/pages\/podcast?srsltid=AfmBOoqK1DzxBb7iwEO6S4SWkLysuvpdPKDjApjGkvrDq5ZYVNxeCJcd\"><em>I\u2019ll Sleep When I\u2019m Dead<\/em><\/a> podcast listeners, \u201cI am wildly, wildly lucky that I have my husband. But he understands I need my space. He needs his space. John and I largely stay in separate corners.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She also revealed that she and Cusimano \u201chave huge screaming matches all the time,\u201d noting, \u201cIt\u2019s very hard, especially for hot-tempered or creative or vociferous loud people to be able to just calm it down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>On the latest edition of her podcast, released on Tuesday, November 26, Ray continued to open up about her marriage while speaking with best-selling author <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/people\/harlan-coben\/\">Harlan Coben<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJohn and I\u2026 we don\u2019t have any children. We have one dog at a time, and that\u2019s about as much as we can handle. But I love my life with John because we are 50\/50, because he enjoys being on his own and I enjoy being on my own,\u201d Ray said.<\/p>\n<p><div id=\"attachment_1160521\" style=\"width: 865px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1160521\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1160521\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-855x570.jpg\" alt=\"John Cusimano and Rachael Ray\" width=\"855\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-855x570.jpg 855w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-434x289.jpg 434w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-234x155.jpg 234w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-570x380.jpg 570w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray-1014x676.jpg 1014w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/john-cusimano-rachael-ray.jpg 2028w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 855px) 100vw, 855px\" \/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-1160521\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">John Cusimano and Rachael Ray; Rob Kim\/Getty Images for NYCWFF<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cI can write all day, and cook all day, and home-make all day. I love homemaking. I don\u2019t have kids, but I love homemaking. I always found it so insulting when people say, \u2018You don\u2019t have children.\u2019 So what, I make a nice home,\u201d she continued.<\/p>\n<p>She went on to say that while John is a lawyer, \u201che prefers to be a musician\u201d and can \u201cspend all day in the studio\u201d making music. \u201cHe\u2019s so filled with joy at the end of the day when he\u2019s had a good day with his instruments and recording something. We\u2019re separate, but that brings us together because we each have a little bit of space,\u201d Ray stated.<\/p>\n<p>However, she admitted that both she and John get angry easily. \u201cIf John writes a crap song, or he doesn\u2019t like what he\u2019s doing that day with music, or if he has a business meeting, he gets really mad,\u201d she shared before confessing she is the same way.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf I\u2019m trying to do a recipe or I spend all this time writing something and I go back and read it over and I hate it, I feel like I\u2019ve wasted all these hours and I get really angry,\u201d the Food Network star added. \u201cJohn and I are both that way, we just get grumpy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><div id=\"attachment_1163947\" style=\"width: 451px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1163947\" class=\"wp-image-1163947 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben-441x570.jpg\" alt=\"Rachael Ray and Harlan Coben\" width=\"441\" height=\"570\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben-441x570.jpg 441w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben-224x289.jpg 224w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben-768x993.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben-1585x2048.jpg 1585w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben-785x1014.jpg 785w, https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-harlan-coben.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 441px) 100vw, 441px\" \/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-1163947\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Rachael Ray and Harlan Coben; Sean Zanni\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s when I\u2019m very dramatic,\u201d Ray continued. \u201cAnd, \u2018How come you\u2019re not here? Why don\u2019t you ever just come downstairs? Can\u2019t we just watch a movie or something?\u2019 It\u2019s just because I\u2019m pissed at me or something that happened in my day, so I\u2019m gonna let that expand and expound on that.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"inline-callout\">\n<div class=\"inline-callout-content\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/1161507\/rachael-ray-kids-marriage-family-health-pets-podcast-bob-harper\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"156\" width=\"240\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/rachael-ray-1-234x155.jpg\" alt=\"Rachael Ray Gets Candid About &#039;Dark Days&#039; &amp; Not Having Kids\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"inline-callout-label\">Related<\/div>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/1161507\/rachael-ray-kids-marriage-family-health-pets-podcast-bob-harper\/\">Rachael Ray Gets Candid About &#8216;Dark Days&#8217; &amp; Not Having Kids<\/a><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>As for what calms Ray down, she said, \u201cBooks center me and make me calm, and that\u2019s very hard to do.\u201d She said she and John both have stacks of books on their nightstands on their side of the bed. However, even books can make her lose her cool, specifically, audiobooks.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/show\/rachael-ray-in-tuscany\/\"><em>Rachael Ray in Tuscany<\/em><\/a> host shared a story of recording an audiobook for her 2019 book, <em>Rachael Ray 50: Memories and Meals from a Sweet and Savory Life: A Cookbook<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI couldn\u2019t get through it because they had edited it before I sat for the thing\u2026 I was so pissed that somebody messed with my words,\u201d she explained. \u201cI stormed out. It\u2019s so embarrassing to admit that, but I did. And they were just trying to make the thing more popular\u2026 but I don\u2019t like people messing with my stuff.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Coben, who is good friends with Ray, has written over 30 novels, 12 of which have been adapted for film and television. He signed a multi-million dollar deal with Netflix in 2018 to adapt 14 of his novels; so far, this has included series such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/show\/safe\/\"><em>Safe<\/em><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/show\/the-stranger\/\"><em>The Stranger<\/em><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/show\/stay-close\/\"><em>Stay Close,<\/em><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/show\/shelter\/\"><em>Shelter<\/em><\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvinsider.com\/show\/fool-me-once\/\"><em>Fool Me Once<\/em><\/a>. 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